st: Only use clutter_actor_invalidate_paint_volume() if the API exists

st: Only use clutter_actor_invalidate_paint_volume() if the API exists

With commits fab39bbea5d9a7a0330a1be548f8ee26cd7e3131 and
62e40a13506b4481a50944be886b36566c464dc0 we started depending on a new
ClutterActor API: clutter_actor_invalidate_paint_volume()

Given that this commit was applied to the 40 stable release, it broke
ABI compatibility with mutter, which is something we guarantee between
stable releases. So use GModule to dynamically find the symbol in our
loaded libraries. If it exists, use it and invalidate the paint volume.
If it doesn't exist, libmutter is still at version 40.0 and we don't
need to invalidate the paint volume.

This also adds a dependency on gmodule. We need to link against gmodule
to use g_module_open() and g_module_symbol() APIs.

Part-of: <https://gitlab.gnome.org/GNOME/gnome-shell/-/merge_requests/1807>